The Ride Home

Why I built this

Aaron Lewis

Aaron Lewis, CMPCAaron has worked extensively within Major League Baseball, Special Operations Forces, college football, and in academia. He is a Certified Mental Performance Consultant (CMPC), the field’s top certification, which takes a graduate degree, 400 mentored hours with athletes and clients, and a comprehensive certification exam. He is also a former college athlete.LinkedIn

I spent four seasons building a mental performance program for a Major League Baseball organization. Working with professional players every day, you see what actually separates them. It’s rarely talent or preparation. At that level, everyone can play, and everyone is prepared.

Often, the separator is how well a player digests performance. A bad night stays one bad night instead of snowballing, and a great night doesn’t change how they prepare. One game is one game. One inning is one inning. One at-bat is one at-bat. What happened today doesn’t decide tomorrow. That’s an advanced skill, and plenty of pros never fully learn it.

Young athletes almost never work on it on purpose. They want to succeed, the people around them make clear how much it matters, and when it doesn’t go their way, they don’t have the tools to handle it. Whether a kid builds those tools depends a lot on the conversations they have with their parents about their games. Usually, that starts on the ride home.

Those conversations are hard. You care a lot, you just watched something go wrong, and what comes out first is usually a fix, a verdict, or a pep talk. All of it comes from love. Most of it ends the conversation.

The Ride Home lets you practice those conversations before they count, in your kid’s sport, with a kid who reacts the way real kids do. It’s built on published sport psychology research and on what I’ve seen work with athletes. The goal is a kid who can handle a hard night, still loves their sport, and still wants to talk to you about it. And a parent who, after a while, doesn’t need the practice anymore.